Wednesday 19 February 2014

Vuxen poang! (Grown up points).

I have heard of this before, but finally found proof that it exists in Swedish society.  Young people in Sweden mock the process of growing up, and often in such demolish their own structure of healthy society.  Who wants kids, a house, a secure job?  Its more important to have fun and be immature!  Is this really true?` Read more....

http://www.thelocal.se/20111212/2005

http://vuxenpoang.se/  (You can even take a test to see how "grown up" you are).

Wednesday 18 December 2013

Loppi

Something interesting about Sweden...

I just got THIS in the mail, to "test it out."

What did i think about it all?

1.  Kids zoo vitamins.  Sure, there is some vitamin C in there, but the main ingredient is sugar, so i wasnt thrilled about them.

2.  Majskrokar.  These are like cheetos, but without any salt, or any flavoring whatsoever.  However, our kids were convinced and devoured these things before you could say "want some chips?"

3.  Folksam barn safety kit.  I would buy this kit for all my friends with little kiddos....pretty practical, small and easy to take along, BUT something like a small one time alvedon would make this kit PERFECT.

4.  Duplo penguin and polar bear.  I guess so few pieces is ideal for a 1 year old, but i was still a bit disappointed that the kit didnt have more creative pieces to make the whole thing more interactive.

5.  Garant applesauce.  These are great to take "to go,"  but somehow i cant get my son to eat them more than just a bite or two, and always have to throw the rest away after a day or two.  Smaller packaging would perhaps be good too?

6.  Little pixi book.  These things are gold.  Great to take along when you have an impatient kid, cute stories, and i have never really been disappointed with one so far.  Good stuff.

Thanks loppi for letting me test this stuff!

Monday 4 November 2013

Child centered Sweden

Yet another article about all the pros and cons of having a child centered culture here in Sweden.

http://www.thelocal.se/20131028/51040

I find that kids who have boundaries and healthy discipline tend to be much more content and mature than kids who can run free and call all the shots.

Parents, we can do better than this article suggests!

Last week I shared an elevator with a lady (probably the grandma) and two kids.  She suggested they go one place, and they both called her dumb, a burden to have with them, and kind of a waste of time. And she just weakly smiled at me. If you raise your kids with no boundaries, will that really turn them into respectful caring people?


Time will show....

Saturday 2 November 2013

Jäntelagen...a key to "understanding" Swedes?

Jäntelagen, what is that, you might ask?

It kind of goes to the opposite extreme of good old American self confidence.
Instead, don't dare think you are something special, worthwhile, have special skills, etc.

A recent tv show about some Americans coming to find their roots in Sweden has a little language lesson.
"When you ask a Swede how they're doing, they will not reply like the Americans with, "I'm great!"
A Swede will reply with as many self negaters as possible. Nej, ganska bra, faktiskt.  As if they are suprised that they feel ok. That is a classic example of Jantelagen.

I will stop here, but this thought is not over....

(From Wikipedia)
The Law of Jante is the idea that there is a pattern of group behaviour towards individuals within Scandinavian communities that negatively portrays and criticises individual success and achievement as unworthy and inappropriate. The Jante Law as a concept was created by the Dano-Norwegian author Aksel Sandemose, who in his novel A fugitive crosses his tracks (En flyktning krysser sitt spor, 1933, English translation published in the USA in 1936) identified the Law of Jante as ten rules. Sandemose's novel portrays the small Danish town Jante (modelled upon his native town Nykøbing Mors as it was at the beginning of the 20th century, but typical of all small towns and communities), where nobody is anonymous.[1]
Generally used colloquially as a sociological term to negatively describe an attitude towards individuality and success common in Sweden[2] and the rest of the Nordic countries, the term refers to a mentality that de-emphasizes individual effort and places all emphasis on the collective, while discouraging those who stand out as achievers.
There are ten rules in the law as defined by Sandemose, all expressive of variations on a single theme and usually referred to as a homogeneous unit: You are not to think you're anyone special or that you're better than us.
The ten rules state:
  1. You're not to think you are anything special.
  2. You're not to think you are as good as us.
  3. You're not to think you are smarter than us.
  4. You're not to convince yourself that you are better than us.
  5. You're not to think you know more than us.
  6. You're not to think you are more important than us.
  7. You're not to think you are good at anything.
  8. You're not to laugh at us.
  9. You're not to think anyone cares about you.
  10. You're not to think you can teach us anything.
These ten principles or commandments are often claimed to form the "Jante's Shield" of the Scandinavian people.
In the book, the Janters who transgress this unwritten 'law' are regarded with suspicion and some hostility, as it goes against the town's communal desire to preserve harmony, social stability and uniformity.
An eleventh rule recognized in the novel as 'the penal code of Jante' is:
  1. Maybe you don't think I know a few things about you?

Sandemose wrote about the working class in the town of Jante, a group of people of the same social position. He expressedly stated in later books that the social norms of Jante were universal and not intended to depict any particular town or country. Today, however, it is common in Scandinavia to claim the Law of Jante as something quintessentially Danish or Swedish (or slightly less often, Norwegian).
Later, the meaning of The Law of Jante was extended to refer to those who want to break out of their social groups and reach a higher position in society in general.[3]
In Sweden the 'Law' is often understood as having to do with economic achievement and social hierarchy (close to concepts such as humility and envy), while in Denmark, it may also be used to describe the negative attitude towards people who are culturally or socially standing out from the norm, but not necessarily more successful or higher-ranking.

Friday 1 November 2013

No förskola is better than parents time and love for a kid...

Sweden has pressure on all parents to get their kids into the "system."  Put them into government child care as soon as possible, dont you know that everyone needs to do their part for this economy to run well?

Once again, here comes an article about how untrue it is...dagis is never a equivalent subsitute for parents time and love.

"Parents think, Its boring at home for my kids......but to peel carrots and be at home with your kid can be the best thing you do for your child."



Heres the latest article.  Well worth the read (in Swedish).
http://op.se/nyheter/2.6785/lordag/1.5773152--kvalitetstid-ar-mitt-varsta-ord-?fb_action_ids=10201389666438499&fb_action_types=og.recommends&fb_source=other_multiline&action_object_map=%7B%2210201389666438499%22%3A436440569781001%7D&action_type_map=%7B%2210201389666438499%22%3A%22og.recommends%22%7D&action_ref_map=%5B%5D

Heres an older blog I wrote on the same topic.
http://amerisvenska.blogspot.se/2013/02/is-it-really-better-this-way-day-care.html

Friday 27 September 2013

Drop in Baptism?

Does this ring any alarm bells in your head?  Anyone can come and get baptized.  Free priest, music, and coffee afterwards. 

 What about Matthew 7 that says you should know a person by their fruit.  How is that priest able to verify someone's belief that they are planning to take pastoral responsibility for in baptism?

Wednesday 25 September 2013

Way to go, Ullared

Generally speaking, I like Gekås, Ullared.  It's like a huge super walmart in Sweden, really one of it's kind. 

But a while ago they published this picture of a shirt that they are selling.  What is this supposed to mean??

Was it some Chinese factory that accidentally mixed and matched some words and symbols, and do the Swedes buying it even think about any symbolism in this shirt?